I had this website designed with the intention of improving my social life, overcoming my shyness, and possibly creating a buzz for a prospective reality show. My basic premise is that you must always challenge yourself to keep life interesting. I hired the best Web Designer, Videographer, Photographer and Support Staff that San Diego had to offer. It has now been about six months and counting and these are my experiences thus far:
Let’s be honest, it’s been a lot of fun. I’ve lived every man’s fantasy. And sometimes I had to bear the wrath of their jealousy. I’ve come to realize that I could be admired by some and resented by others. So I’ve learned as much about men as well as women.
This has been an experiment in human nature - whether intentional or not. And my learning comes mostly from my mistakes. I saw my behavior in some of the videos. I also got feedback from some of the people I met. From these observations it was obvious that I needed to improve my social skills.
The chemistry between a man and a woman is a fascinating phenomenon. Yet, it has never been really studied except in the biological sense. So this is truly an experiment of the human kind.
You know how they over-use that word “journey” in reality shows. Well as corny as it is - it’s true. When I was young, like most men, it was about “scoring”. But when a man finally realizes it’s not about quantity and we no longer need to prove ourselves, we look for something deeper. It’s about that spark in the eyes when you catch each other’s gaze. It’s about the way your heart races a bit when she smiles at you. It’s what makes life worth living – PASSION! So it’s not all about results but the process – living in the “Now” – enjoying the moment.
My website might appear a bit superficial on the surface but look deeper. Look at the pictures and see how their faces are lit up. Look at the smiles. Look at the laughter. It’s about living life! Celebrating!
So I urge you to challenge yourself. When you see someone at some place like the grocery store who grabs your attention; walk up to them and just say something about them you find attractive. Watch their face light up. See their cheeks rise up into a big smile. Then just wish them a good day and walk away. See how much power you have? You just made their day. And next time they see you, they’ll remember you.
I also want to share with you the secret of my success... (to be continued...)